Let's face it. We need peace the most
when it's hardest to find. Silly humans. Always longing for what's
missing, rather than opening our eyes to what's actually there. I
raise my hand in guilt. I have been there so many times. I mean, a
house filled with 10 of your closest relatives isn't exactly
peaceful. Or so it might seem.
Our house is slowly “clearing out”
now. It may be a little too quiet.
Once upon a time, I wished for
this very thing to happen. And OK. Ya. It is a relief in some ways.
The workload is definitely decreasing. Whew! What a crazy whirlwind it's been!
But something really great came out of
the experience of having most of my descendants under one roof. I
really did learn to find peace where there is none. And not
surprisingly, I found it within myself and grew it outward, just like
I'm always telling everyone else to do.
It all begins with you, you see?
Because whatever you tell yourself about a situation, that's exactly
what it will become for you. You create your own reality and
therefore, you can also create your own peace. It's all about the
attitude, boys and girls.
There was a time when I was beside
myself dealing with the mess, the confusion and the utter chaos of
having multiple generations share one home. I was cranky, negative
and playing the sympathy symphony to anyone who would listen. And my
sense of peace reflected that negativity. I was miserable.
Because I made myself that way.
Then, somewhere along the way, I took
my own advice and started seeing things differently. Just look at all
the beautiful people I have in my life! How could I not? I started
appreciating them for who they were and not who I thought they should
be. I started seeing how society had made me expect things of them
that no mere mortal could accomplish.
Heck, even I'm not that perfect. Ha!
I said to myself, “My friends and
family love me so much. They're always there for me, good bad or
ugly.”
Of course, part of that was because
they lived with me 99% of the time. Tee Hee! Whatever. We are still a
close bunch, despite our diversity and the fact that due to the
modern world's demands, we didn't have much choice but to do the
roommate thing.
Anyway....
While peace starts within you, it can
also spread to permeate your whole life, bathing you in sunshiney
goodness even in the most difficult, trying situations. The trick is
simple. You just have to believe your life is great and it will be.
Yup. When it comes to bringing peace
amid chaos. positivism is absolute magic. I highly recommend it.
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