I'm serious, you guys. When I was first
introduced to the wonderful world of the web, it was all fun and
games. Well, that mixed with a bit of cursing at the learning curve.
But now? Well now, if I'm on there too long, which could mean
anywhere from10 minutes to 2 hours, it honestly makes me a bit
nauseous.
In particular, I'm so tired of being
inundated with commercialism on social media. I mean, I get that some
web promotion is necessary these days. But must everyone be
trying to sell something (even if it's only a plea for
self-affirmation?) every second of every day?
And point proving has become an
epidemic. Worse than that, people actually brag about showing others
up and making them feel bad.
And does this sound familiar?
*If you scroll past this, you're
heartless.
*Pass this on to 25 friends (in other
words, annoy the heck out of them too.)
*Say Merry Christmas/Don't say Merry
Christmas/Keep Christ in Christmas
*Wear this/Do this/Say that
*Share this to prove you're my friend
And on and on.
No wonder we're all so stressed out.
When did this all become normal and/or
acceptable?
Also, when did we start thinking it was
OK to spam, troll or bite the heads off of our friends for
entertainment/profit or personal satisfaction/affirmation?
What ever happened to placing value on
common decency, dignity and grace?
And what's worse?
I'm guilty of some of it myself.
Which is why you don't see much of me
on social media any more. It's getting to a point where I'm just as
nauseated by my own online behavior as I am the behavior of others.
I'm now questioning my decision to participate in social media. At
least the way the tone of it runs now, anyway. It just encourages
such a warped mindset.
The reign of social media is changing
us all. It's certainly nice to get to know people you wouldn't have
met otherwise or keep in touch with/find old friends. Beyond that,
though, it appears to have become a big bitch session.
I think I'll just stick to the friendly
socialization part of social media from now on and cut myself off if
things get ugly. I can auto-post my articles directly from my blogs
anyway.
And by the way, I've never expected
anyone to feel obligated to read my blogs. I just put them out there
in case there's interest. I mean, sure, that's how I make money, from
page views. But honestly, I want people to read my writing out of
enjoyment, not because they feel guilty if they don't.
Oh, and if I feel like venting, I
always have this Rants and Raves blog. It's better to put it here
since it's not directed at anyone on a personal level. Therefore,
there's not such a sting involved as there is in personal social
media conversation.
So, that's how I'm dealing with
surviving the reign of social media. How about you?
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